Another way to find universal love and happiness:
A Chinese proverb says: “If you want to be happy for an hour, go take a nap. Go fishing if you want to be happy for a day or two and Find Love and Happiness anywhere. If you’re going to be satisfied for a year, you should inherit a fortune. If you’re going to be happy for the rest of your life, help someone.”
Since ancient times, the greatest thinkers have all advocated the same conclusion: happiness can be found by assisting others. However, sometimes helping others could be complicated as humans seem unclear if they are actually happy or not, or have loved or not.
It is my impression that most people do not really know if they have ever or can ever feel love or happiness. That it might be genetically impossible because the more they try to grasp it the more it illudes them.
They have the XHL gene. The no happiness nor love gene. Most think they haven’t, think they can’t and never have felt it.
I contend that most people have and they can find it again and live in happiness.
First, universal love is no different at its core than romantic love. The stuff we all lust after. Romantic love is a part of universal love. Both triger the same emotions often described as nervous happiness when one sees the object of their desire. A tingling in the heart. An excitement and an anticipation.
You think you have never felt that? What is your favorite food in the world? Maybe it is a dessert.
What happens when you enter a shop that has it. Just what you long for? How do you feel? Hands clamy, eyes dart nervously, mouth waters, you can taste the love in the air and in the back room.
You think of how find it looks being brought to you and You can not wait. Remember every detail of how it looks, how it makes you feel.
For a minute i was happy
It can work similarly for a new sports car you want to drive again. You remember how it looked, and how nimble it was and the sound of the engine. You can remember almost every line and you were oh so happy when ever you got near it.
This is what love feels like, a love of anything and anyone. Now to spread it for everyone and everything.
You know what it feels like. See it and appreciate it in more and more of the things around you.
And look how happy it makes you feel.
Love and happiness. It is your choice to appreciate it or not. To be happy or not. It is not up to anyone or anything else. It is your choice. While it is out of your control generally to choose the things you love, it is up to you to be happy about it or not. To be happy you love chocolate Moose Tracks icecream or not. Happy to love your spouse.
Mosat have been in love multiple times. Now is the time to spread those feelings out and to feel the love come back.