What is Universal Love and Happiness?

How to Find Universal Love and Happiness.

                                                      By Jim Chilson

As a broad notion, spirituality allows for a variety of viewpoints. It often entails a quest for purpose in life and generally involves a feeling of connection to something greater than ourselves. As a result, it is a shared human experience that affects everyone. A spiritual experience may be sacred, sublime, or a profound sense of aliveness and connectivity.

Some people could discover that their affiliation with a church, temple, mosque, or synagogue is closely related to their spiritual life. Others look for significance in their relationships with nature or the arts. Others could pray or find solace in a close personal connection with God or high power.

Most of us think we are so far from universal love and joy, and they are such distant memories that we give up, and the thought of ever being in that state again is unimaginable. Fortunately, it is easy if you are thinking about how to be happy in life or what is the art of happiness. It is a lot easier than doing the dishes or mowing a lawn. Suppose you have felt it before. It is easy to feel it again. And if you never have, it is easy to feel what it feels like. Our doubt-filled minds may make us think about how to be happy and how difficult feeling love and happiness is.

The happiness or love genes are not working. Most people do not know if they have ever or can ever feel love or happiness. Most think they haven’t and can’t and never will feel it. But it also seems to be everyone’s greatest desire. But it might be genetically impossible because the more they try to grasp it, the more it eludes them.

I contend that most people surrendering to God’s love can find the art of happiness again and live in joy.

First, universal love is no different at its core than romantic love. Romantic love is a part of universal love. Both trigger emotions often described as nervous happiness when one sees the object of their desire—a tingling in the heart. Excitement and anticipation – the stuff we all lust after it? What is your favorite food in the world? Maybe it is a dress. Or shoes? Almost everyone loves something.

What happens when you enter a shop that has it? Just what do you long for? How do you feel? Hands clammy, eyes dart nervously, mouth waters, you can taste the love in the air.

You think of how fine the art of happiness looks being brought to you, and you cannot wait. Remember every detail of how it looks, how it makes you feel.

For a minute, you smile and feel happy.

It can work similarly for an old sports car you want to drive again. You remember how it looked, handled, and the engine’s sound. You can remember almost every line and were happy whenever you got near it.

This is what peace, love, and happiness feel like, a love of anything and anyone. Now spread it to everyone and everything.

You know what it feels like. See it and appreciate it in more and more things around you.

And look how happy it makes you feel.

Love and happiness

It is your choice to appreciate it or not. To be happy or not. It is not up to anyone or anything else. It is your choice. While it is generally out of your control to choose the things you love, it is up to you to be happy about them. To be glad that you love chocolate Mousse Tracks ice cream or not. Comfortable loving your spouse is your choice.

Is love happiness?, most people have been in love multiple times. Now is the time to expand those feelings and feel the love and happiness for those things you love and life itself. To make yourself feel that joy once again. Love and happiness.

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If you want to help someone, give them what they ask for, or don’t give, and don’t judge.

What do you do when you want to help someone? If I wanted to help someone I wouldn’t give money to people who asked but I would buy them food, for example, is a popular idea.

We are taking on the role as their father, and for their own good because we are making sure they don’t do something bad with the money.

I met an Indian truck driver who gave me pause to think about my philosophy of giving. He said that if someone really needed help with a cigarette and I am having helping nature but I am against smoking, so I buy him a pack of gum, for example, when you want to help someone it’s really not the help. He wants a cigarette and I give him gum. What an ass I am. No matter how much helping nature I am having. So, anyone can help but do understand it first.

So now anyone can help but I hope to be able to give what someone asks for and not what I think is best for them.

Or choose to not give. But I will not give him something he knows he does not want. I am not his parent and he is not a child. So, When you want to help someone some things can consider;

  • Love and happiness
  • You deserve to be happy and loved
  • Happiness is a choice
  • Happiness is a state of mind
  • Good for you. You look happy and healthy
  • Help Someone You Don’t Like
  • anyone can help

One of the keys to happiness is to stop judging people. You are not God. Actually you are God, but most have not really accepted that yet.

It is so easy to judge others but don t judge and not see oneself. Even when we tell ourselves we are judging for the right reason.

Discrimination and judging are different. The second definition of discrimination is to know the difference. The first delimitations of judging is judging between right and wrong, good and bad.

But who is to say what is right and what is wrong. Doing something right could have the wrong effect on the innocent person who is just caught up in the situation.

And we judge so fast based on little information so, don t judge too quickly.

We see someone wearing worn clothes and we jump to conclusions. We hear a rumor about someone and the bad things they did, even though they are the nicest people to us. “I would be happy all the time too if I had her job. She is the boss’s favorite.” So, don t judge and make assumptions you don’t know the situation of other person.

Well sure, who wants to be around a grumpy sour-faced complaing person?

Shaby clothes, maybe a relative just died. Who knows?

One thing I do know is practice not judging and it will make you happier.

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