Who is God? Confessions of an Ex-sinner, Part 1

By Jim Chilson

“Who is God?”

That was my question. 

The sign outside said ex-Sinners Anonymous.

“Hello. My name is Jim.”

“Hello Jim!” You all shout.

“And I am a sinner.” Or everyone in the church said I was, anyway.

This is how I became an ex-sinner.

We have all sinned and fallen short of the glory of God. I was thinking, where can I find God?

I can agree with the last part. How can humans understand God and act less than God about the universe?

I mean, He built it. She created all of it; He hears us when we talk to Him. Every time. By the way, who is God to you?

Except when we don’t get what we asked for, such as where is the proof of God’s existence?

He is a loving, kind God and vengeful, jealous God. Huh? Sounds like my neighbor’s grandfather.

Why do we put all these human characteristics on God?

A story about God, something we have a hard time imagining – something that created all of us, but what about the proof of God’s existence? And where can I find God? And all there is, and all the laws of the universe, is like my neighbor’s grandfather? He confounded great human minds such as Einstein until Einstein could only theorize a part of what God did. 

This Great Creator is as moody as that grandfather next door, who po-poed his scruffy dog, and condemns the dog walkers to Hell if their dog pisses on his lawn?

Now the Bible seems to say to me thou shalt not judge. It is about forgiveness and love, and non-judgment. That’s the New Testament, anyway. So how can a newborn baby be a sinner? And who are we to judge anyways? No, something isn’t clicking. Something is wrong here.

And something is wrong in so many places. God gives us free will and then says if we do a terrible thing, we will go to Hell for eternity. It does not make sense.

What was the problem??

This was the problem I had regarding God as I was growing up. I got many answers from many authority figures, and they all contradicted each other about who God is.

No matter who I asked, I heard similar BS logic trying to sound rational. I asked church elders where i find God, and soon as I heard, “Hmmm, that’s an excellent question, young man. Well, ….”    I knew they didn’t have a clue.

So I was frustrated with God and getting worse, so I quit. I needed a break. So I stopped asking.

Years went by, and I wanted to maintain some sanity.

A classmate asked me if I believed in God and if God was real.

Maybe.

He said, “Yes. Of course.”

I asked him how does he know?

He replied it says so.

I asked, “Where?”

In the Bible.

I smiled, said bye, and left. I didn’t want to hear anymore.

Years passed. Maybe decades. Maybe God is real, maybe not, but thinking about it seemed an exercise in frustration.

So no more who is God or is God alive questions. My mind went on vacation regarding the subject.

But God doesn’t give up on us so quickly, it seems. Even if we give up on Him, He is a stubborn creator. He bided His time. He is pretty wise for an old guy, and naturally has to be.

Then He saw His chance. A chance to impart some wisdom into the tired mixed-up mind of someone He knew still wanted answers, no matter what I told myself.

So I found myself in a thrift store and found a book of cassette tapes called Conversations with God. Thought sh%$. I sighed as I read on the cover about what was inside, liked what I read and forked over the hard-earned cash I had earmarked for a fat Jack in the Box or In-n-Out burger.

I put the first tape in my tape deck and reluctantly pushed play. It was not what I was used to hearing when it came to Biblical things. It said crazy sinful things that I was going to go to Hell for eternity for even buying. And crazy stuff, like Hitler isn’t in Hell, and no, babies are not born in sin.

OMG. I played and played and played those tapes for as long as my cassette player would play them. I loved it, and  wanted to disagree with it because it was not what I was taught, but it all made sense.

By the way, now I can listen to everything the author Neale Donald Walsh says on YouTube. It seems he had similar frustrations as I did in the beginning.

OK, so there is a God, probably.

And other things started to happen in the years ahead.

I noticed there was a meditation class at a nearby Buddhist temple.

So I went to see if they could teach my attention-deficit self how to meditate.

The most significant spiritual person I have ever met.

Was it an accident or coincidence that I found myself in the first meeting with a young monk who spoke no English in a class with Americans who spoke no Chinese and an interpreter in between?

The Monk spoke a sentence in Chinese, and the interpreter carefully said, “Does anyone know why we meditate?”

I could read the room’s mood because I was one of them. I thought a moment was searching for the most profound reason I could publicly state (By the way, “profound sounding” – I became like the church elders I ran away from).

The profound reasons that flowed like honey out of that room gave flies on the wall a sugar high. Everyone sounded like a poet.

After the translator finished, the Monk shook his head and said something the interpreter rephrased: “No. You’re mistaken.” The room fell still.

“We meditate so we don’t have to come back here.”

What? How simple, how direct, how un-human, how un-pass the collection plates.

A religious person is not interested in money or growing his followers and seems only interested in helping people in their spiritual journey and progress. I love it.

How unusual, How special, How unselfish, How long will this temple allow him to teach here?

All of that was true, even the last question, and he lasted just a few years. He had to leave, but fortunately, some wealthy followers also appreciated his uniqueness and sponsored him in a rented house until now, he is at a new temple. It reminds me of another teacher who got into trouble with the elders by stirring the pot of selflessness.

Monk Wei Shi, his name is, and someone told me it meant from the East, but he enjoyed life. He is what I should be – happily appreciating this life. He always looked to be wearing a smile. Most people might think he had nothing – just the robes on his back, but none of the luxuries most normal people desire.

He joked also. Want to hear a Monk’s joke?

One time in China, a long time ago, a young girl was on her way to get water from a stream.

A young man was there, sitting by the road. When he saw her, he jumped up, ran next to her, and told her she was the prettiest girl he had ever seen.

She giggled.

He told her no, it is true. You are gorgeous. I am in love. I want to live with you forever and ever.

She giggled some more. Then she said, “Well, if you think I am the most beautiful you have ever seen, then you should see my sister, who is just over there.”

She noded behind her. He looked.

She gathers her pale and starts walking away.

The boy looks back at her and asks, “Hey, where are you going? I am in love with you.”

She asks him, “If I am the most beautiful you have ever seen and you love me, why did you look for my sister?”

And she walked away to live happily ever after. Smart girl. Smart Monk.

A glimpse at realization:

Something else happened to me in that meditation class. It seemed very small but was immense as the sea. It came out of nowhere, lasted less than a millisecond, was there and gone, and never came back.

I meditated for two years there, meaning I and the others sat on a pillow in the temple basement for an hour and a half with our eyes closed.

After two years of this, I was getting antsy, waiting for something to happen. That Sunday was like every other Meditation Sunday. “OK. Meditate,” the translator said, and we all closed our eyes.

But something burned through my mind halfway through class and without warning.

I felt, and I knew from every atom in my body and the universe knew, though it probably didn’t care, I knew, for a split second, I realized that I, or my body, was made of the same stuff that the vast wooden support beam near me holding up that building was. I was the same, and we are connected to the universe.

It doesn’t sound like much; the heavens never opened up, and no voices came out of heaven. But there it was. A tiny fraction of the minor little thing in the universe, something I could call a splinter of a molecule of enlightenment, landed on my head like a boulder.

I could say I started acting and thinking like an awakened spirit, but no. Except for the wow, I feel when I remember it, no.

Regardless of religion, this was the proof of God’s existence that is open, I am sure, to anyone and everyone seeking this path to understanding.

There is more coming in Part 2. Let me give you a rest and an opportunity to think about what has happened to me and can happen to anyone who asks for it, for I have no doubt a part of me asked for it all. The article, The ABCs of Finding Happiness Through Religion is one way to get peace in life. Our article about who He is may also help. 

 

Topics for Part 2.

Reverand Lee and the readings

Sai Baba, Darshans, and Kyle

TV and becoming vegetarian

Love and Max and the world

Starting this website

 

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How to become happy

How to become Happy in a minute

Regardless of age, being happy and optimistic is crucial for maximizing every element of your life. We are more likely to get out and interact with the world when we are so glad, and the more we do it, the happier we get.

Unfortunately, many things that can make us happier call for dedication over an extended period. It sounds simple to “just get out there and make friends,” but it’s rather tricky you have to explore how to be happy with what you have or you can read the best books on how to be happy. It requires time to get in shape. Knowing where to begin might be challenging if you feel your potential for pleasure needs to be realized.

How to be happy again in a minute or less? There are a couple of easy steps to follow to put yourself in a more optimistic mood much of the time. Of course, everyone sometimes feels sad, but this exercise helps me raise my happiness level. So, how to become happy in a short period?

In this post, we will discuss some tips for how to become happy again in no time;

Open your Blinds

SAD (seasonal affective disorder) is a condition wherein a lack of sunlight can cause sorrow or even melancholy. Opening your blinds and letting some sunshine into your house can make you happier even if you don’t have this condition. Better yet, how about taking a little stroll through your garden and explore how to be happy in a relationship also? Your head will buzz from the extra sun, and your heart will race from the walk.

Appreciate God’s Blessings

People frequently forget the good things in their lives when times are difficult. Significantly few people experience the collapse of their entire world. When under stress, most people notice a decline in mood. By evaluating what is going well, you may turn things up rapidly. Grab some paper, and list all the positive things and how to be happy in your life. You won’t believe how quickly that smile returns to your face. This is how to become happy with yourself. You can do it to find your happiness.

Yoga

Starting a yoga practice can change the game.

I’ve rediscovered the strength of my mind and body and how well they complement one another. It has helped me become more aware of my strength, perseverance, and power while allowing me to push past my comfort zone gently.

Mindfulness

Although mindfulness has a wide variety of applications, at its foundation, it only refers to being completely present.

Bringing your focus to all five senses — sight, hearing, touch, smell, and taste — and observing what each is experiencing is a terrific method to do this. This is a suitable method if you want to know how to become happy with yourself.

  • What do you notice in the area?
  • Can you hear anything?
  • Are there any sensations you can name?
  • Read motivating literature, and listen to positive stories.

Although it seems straightforward, doing so can alter your perspective on life. Please take note of your daily exposure and how it affects your mood. There is a deluge of conflicting information coming at you from various sources. As a result, feeling motivated or inspired may occasionally take work. Make it a point to keep a book or other reading material that inspires you on your bedside or bookcase.

Do something good for someone

It can be inexpensive or large. Just smile at people while driving or remark on their attire. Positive energy will quickly flow back to you. Your interpersonal relationships can be improved without investing much effort in them. Proper consideration in a relationship might be as simple as visiting someone’s social media account to wish them luck on a job interview.

Look in the mirror and tell yourself, this is an excellent day

Don’t claim it will be fantastic. Suggest that it is already. Bring a wonderful day into being. When you do it, don’t second-guess yourself.

Just have faith in the future;

Never forget that being spiritual doesn’t have to be complicated or uncomfortable. Finding your most authentic and happiest self is the key. You can take whatever practices others suggest and if it helps you, use it. If not, feel free to discard it.

Do not waste time regretting the past or worrying about the future. Experience this moment only as much as you can. Life is made up of moments. Don’t lose any.

Give thanks for all you have now and all that is coming. Appreciate this life, for it is a gift. Look around you and notice what there is to be thankful for.

45-second meditation session

Too many distractions might drain your vitality and make you feel down. Your phone’s timer should be set for 45 seconds. Close your eyes, relax your shoulders, and concentrate on deep breathing while leaning back. Visualize the unpleasant ideas exiting your body through your nostrils as you exhale. Open your eyes when the alarm goes off. Focus for 10 seconds, then bask in the high.

Thou shalt not judge.

Not in other people, not yourself, not situations. It is no good or bad. There is. It is just life.

Think about something you love or like a lot.

Something that makes you happy is the cause of happiness: food, a person, and a pet. Think of them or it. Study them carefully. Feel what it feels like to be around them or it. Only think about how nice it makes you feel with the happy people documentary; if they are not here now or are, it doesn’t matter. We are after the joy with the happy people it brings you. Look closely at them. If it is a chocolate cream cake, taste it. Look at the texture if it is a pet, smile when you play—a baby, smile when you pick them up. You can do these things when thinking about how to become happy.

OK. It’s not difficult to find how to be happy in life. You should be feeling pretty happy now. Hold on to that feeling for as long as you can. Repeat the exercise whenever you want. And find different things to love in future activities.

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