Should you go with the flow or not? Should you surrender or should you manifest and create your own reality?
I am going to answer your question from experience, my experience and the experiences of many of my clients and students. So this will not be an intellectual answer or one based on suppositions or beliefs.
You ‘should’ do whatever you feel inspired to do. There really is no should involved in this. But there is the appearance of choice.
You can choose to imagine that life and reality are yours and that you can control and create your own reality. Most people do. But there is a price to pay for living this delusion. If you choose to live in this way then there will be struggle, suffering and there will always be unintended consequences. Inner peace will only be a fleeting or periodic experience no matter how ‘successful’ you become. Total and complete fulfillment will be elusive and out of reach. Experience of the flow will be intermittent at best and only at moments when you are completely focused on a particular task or practice.
If you choose and commit to constant total and absolute surrender then you relinquish the belief that you are in control of reality and that life belongs to you; Life flows beautifully, Synchronicity is how events play out every day, Everything working out perfectly becomes the norm. All of this happens effortlessly, without stress, without struggle, without suffering and without control.
The surrender requires great courage at first. Letting go of the beliefs that limit you takes some time and experience. Eventually the process becomes autonomic. I have posted an article about exactly how to do this and posted it at my blog
. You are most welcome to read it there and to use all the meditations and practices I have posted.
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